When I was young our family visited my Uncle Neil and Aunt Etta on their farm in Arkadelphia, Arkansas. I was probably eleven or twelve years old. We were there for a family reunion on my dad's side of the family, which included my Cherokee relatives. We had the usual southern food of black eyed peas, poke salad, green beans, new potatoes, BBQ beef brisket, and of course baking powder biscuits. The men gathered outside tending to the BBQ with the women were inside the kitchen tending to the sides.
I remember my Aunt and Uncle's house was modest; what I would call a double shotgun. Living room and kitchen on one side and bedroom bathroom and bedroom on the other side with a short hallway between the bedrooms. My Aunt and Uncle were taller than most in our family and very thin. Those days no one had air conditioning and it was hot and humid. Uncle Neil wore overalls and Aunt Etta wore a shirtwaist dress with small flowers. I remember Aunt Etta had white wispy hair.
When the meal was ready the food was laid out on the kitchen table buffet style. Everyone served themselves. The men ate outside and the women sat in the living room with plates propped on their laps. After the meal everyone went outside to sit in the shade and escape the indoor heat. The men played horseshoes and the women sat at an outside table. There was a fan sitting on the table to stir up a slight breeze. The yard was all grass except a few shade trees, some shrubs and four o'clocks planted for color. The yard was fenced off from the pastures and there was a iron clothesline at the back of the yard.
After we sat a spell Aunt Etta asked us kids if we wanted some watermelon. Of course we all said yes. Aunt Etta took us to her bedroom and told us to each to get a watermelon for ourselves from under her iron post bed. Under Aunt Etta's bed was the coolest place in the house to store watermelons. I said "One whole watermelon for each of us, we can't eat all that". We'd just had a big meal after all. Aunt Etta said don't worry what you don't eat you can feed to the horses. Horses, I was in heaven for I loved horses. I wondered where the horses were.
We each carried our watermelon outside and ate what we could. Amazingly Uncle Neil's thoroughbred horses showed up at the fenceline about that time. Perhaps they could smell the sweet watermelon. I remember the horses were tall with chestnut colored coats. We made our way to the fenceline to share our watermelon with the horses. I kept looking at the horses and wishing I could ride one. I started begging my Uncle Neil to ride one of the horses. I told him I knew how to ride even though I'd only ridden a couple of rented plug horses before.
Finally my Uncle Neil relented and put a bridle on one horse and led him into the back yard. I had to be helped on the horse because he was so tall. Since I was only familiar with rented horses I gave a sharp kick with my feet and the horse took off at a full gallop headed straight for the clothesline poles. It happened so fast no one had time to react except yell, "Duck!, Duck!" The horse and I both ducked at the same time and we made it under the first clothesline pole.
About that time I pulled back on the reins and yelled, "Whoa". We made it under the next clothesline pole and came to an abrupt stop at the end of the yard. The group rushed up to me on the horse, but my Uncle Neil got there first and pulled me down. Everyone was so shocked and relieved I was ok, I didn't get in trouble for what happened. Later on my Uncle Neil explained his horses were trained to the smallest flick of the reins. I admitted I'd only ridden rented horses before. Although I asked to ride again since I now knew about the well trained horses, needless to say that was the end of riding the horses that day. Thankfully I survived my watermelon days.
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